Loneliness.....

Why one person feels so lonely even if he/she have so my friends.....

No i m not talking about me... but about my friend...why one feels lonely... one should take his loneliness as his power to gain many things... one can utilise this loneliness in positive way... I know when things not go as u want, life looks like a empty glass with no hopes,no dreams,no friends, no road not even a single spark of hope..........

This is the most difficult situation of one's life when he looses all hopes from himself & enable to think what to do... Another situation is when one blames all to his own fate....

Today I met with persons with both the situations.....

People with these situations are difficult to handle.. I tried hard to make them understand... I motivated first one but second one was so tearful & blaming on her fate... I also no she had done nothing wrong expect one thing...... i.e. EXPECTATIONS....

Yes one should not do any kind of expectations from any one.... This "no expectation" theory of me help one in not to break down.....If u don't expect anything from anyone then how will one hurts u.. no... no one will then able to hurt you.. 

    BY not to expect from any one does not mean that one should become pessimistic.. but one should always be optimistic but not to expect from others.. one should hope for others but don't expect..

      when one hurts you, you feel lonely specially from the one whom you expected all....

You should make your loneliness your friend, partner & guiding star then this loneliness will give you strength to do great & to become great................................................